"South Africa's Most Inspirational Women"

The glossy-page coffee table book, titled: South Africa's Most Inspirational Women, is available at selected branches of Exclusive Books.


The first launch took place in Sandton, yesterday.

I am honoured to be featured in this beautiful book.

Andeline (page 218 - 223)

From left to right: Delphine, Andeline, Jeanette and Mercy.

Signing copies, purchased by guests.

From left to right: Delphine, Andeline & Sheriefa.

Self-esteem and Assertiveness - Your Life's compass

To order your copy, contact Lonwabo.

E-mail: lonwabo@africaninnovations.co.za

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Thank you.

Yours in Empathy,

Andeline Williams-Pretorius

BA (Health Science & Social Services) Unisa

CEO, Andeline's Motivational Training

Inspirational Speaker, Trainer, Wife & Mother

Regular Empathy & Relationships Expert on Afrikaans radio station: RSG

Life Coach & Columnist to Kuier magazine

PR Consultant

Author of self-published: Success; it's your choice which was approved for the school curriculum in 2006; and In mekaar Se Skoene, published by Naledi in December 2011.

Andeline was recognised by African Innovations Publishing as one of South Africa's Most Inspirational Women. Their glossy-page coffee table book is available at selected branches of Exclusive books.

Mobile: 072 856 0218

Http://www.andeline.co.za

Time to get your book out of your head and officially published?

Is it time for you to get your book out of your head and officially published?

If you answered "yes", then look no further.  This workshop might be just what you need. 

(Also available via correspondence, at R1 200).

See below this image for What qualifies me to guide you.

Please note: Prices subject to change, without prior notification

What qualifies me to guide you?

Apart from various training programmes, I have authored two books:

1. Success; it's your choice

This book was self-published in 2003 and approved by The Department of Education, for the school curriculum (for Life Orientation) in 2006.

2. In Mekaar Se Skoene

This is my book on Empathy.  I focus on this wonderful virtue and how it could transform various relationships.  It was published by national publishing house: Naledi (in December 2011) and has landed me a regular slot on radio (RSG), as Empathy & Relationship Expert.

And now I dream of adding Founder of a National Publishing House to my name.

Should you have any enquiries, you are welcome to contact me: info@andeline.co.za

Best wishes.

Andeline Williams-Pretorius

BA (Health Science & Social Services) Unisa

CEO, Andeline's Motivational Training

Inspirational Speaker, Trainer, Wife & Mother

Regular Empathy & Relationships Expert on Afrikaans radio station: RSG

Life Coach & Columnist to Kuier magazine

PR Consultant

Author of self-published: Success; it's your choice; and In Mekaar Se Skoene, published by Naledi.

Mobile: 072 856 0218

Http://www.andeline.co.za

Some of my pet peeves when it come to business relationships

Empathy and Respect in business, are priceless.

I love helping people when I can. The number one thing about this, that one should master, is to not expect anything in return, not even a “thank you.” This will ensure that you are not disappointed. I think that I've mastered this.

However, what I do not understand, is that some people get out there and proclaim that they've known it all along and had no guidance whatsoever. Why then ask questions on various occasions, when you knew everything all along?

I guess that nobody could get pass their conscience – hopefully.

We could all learn from one another and it is an honourable thing to give credit when it is due.

Because of various negative experiences, have made the decision to be more selective when it comes to helping people. Recently, I have done my best to assist someone by utilising my resources as PR Consultant, not expecting anything in return. Photographs were taken, but before images were uploaded on Facebook, I was neatly cropped out (cut out) of the images. I was the only person of colour in those images.  This made me wonder whether I was considered as "not good enough" to be in the images that were posted on Facebook - Ironic, especially when I was the only one who provided support.  Strange... 

I was shocked and asked this individual why I was cropped out of the images. They were immediately on the defence, saying that they are not a racist – as if I said that they were. I referred them back to my email where I asked a simple “why?”, without any accusations. Their response certainly caught me by surprise. Everything that I was still willing to do, vanished...just like that.

Yes, we still have a lot of issues around race relationships in South Africa. This is why, when I can assist people, I always look for different races, making sure that I assist a white individual, a black individual, a coloured individual, etc.

To “like” or not to “like”

If you want me to “like” your Facebook page, you have to like mine – unless you are someone whom I admire and I chose to “like” your page, because I was inspired to do so. This also means that I will “unlike” a few pages that I currently “like” and “like” a few that I do not “like” already.

Do not ask me to “like” the page of your friend whom I do not know.

My PR Services

Do not ask me for the contact details of journalists, producers, etc., unless we have some business support agreement. If we do not have such an agreement and are not going to establish such an agreement (which is mutually beneficial), you should make use of my services as PR Consultant.

Speaking for exposure

Many speakers are asked to speak at a function (for free) and in return they are promised exposure. Like many speakers, I too have done this, but I got to that stage where I am no longer desperate for someone else to give me exposure, because I know how to get exposure for myself. 

My time is just as valuable as yours and not many people are aware of the amount of time that goes into preparing one's speech. And as a speaker, you have to look great when standing in front of an audience, and that costs money.  As speakers we look at our schedules and decide (perhaps a year in advance) how many times in the following year we can afford to speak for free or at a reduced rate.  Allow me the privilege to make this decision and do not simply expect me to do so. It is disrespectful.  

Since we all want to grow our businesses, you have to consider options that will be valuable to the other party, in return for speaking at that reduced rate.  "Exposure at your function", is not good enough for me.

And most people already have specific charities that they support; I have founded one.

Promises, promises, promises

Do not make promises that you cannot keep or do not intend keeping. And just because nobody comes to you to ask you about what you have promised them, doesn't mean that they do not wonder about it.

Everybody could quote religious phrases on their Facebook page. That however, is no guarantee that they necessarily live a very religious life or that treating others in the way that they would like to be treated, is a priority to them.  Let's face it, some people do abuse religion when they think that it is convenient to do so or when they want to cover up their real motive, which is about grabbing and taking what they can.  When they are done, they chuck you aside.  

And of course, not all of these people pretend to be hugely religious - some pretend to be interested in doing respectful business, when, to them, it is only about "what's in it for me?"

About Feedback

When you give feedback, be honest or do not give feedback at all. You cannot deny it later, because you feel that the feedback given, would perhaps make you look like "less of an expert."  And worse: your integrity will be questioned.

About Endorsements and Recommendations

It is one thing to endorse someone's skill(s) and quite another to write a recommendation. I believe that in order to write a recommendation for someone, one would have to have experienced their great service in some way or another.

Over a period of about two months, I've received three requests to write a recommendation on LinkedIn.  At first I thought to simply ignore the request, because I do not know the person well enough to write a recommendation. I received the third request last week and decided to respond, saying that I only recommend those who's services I have experienced in some way and that I thought that it would be unethical of me to write one, when this was not the case.

Of course, we cannot work with- or support EVERYBODY. Let's identify those individuals who would make the best match for your business, but more importantly, let's focus on building business relationships that are mutually beneficial; relationships that are built on respect and trust. 

Do not use people, thinking that they are stupid and won't even notice.  Believe me, they always do – And they will talk about it behind your back.


IN CONCLUSION:
Every individual has the right and responsibility to step up, speak up, be assertive and not allow themselves to be used.  Exercise your right and responsibility.  It will save you from getting unnecessary business headaches.

Best wishes on your business journey.

Yours in Empathy,

Andeline Williams-Pretorius

Inspirational Speaker, Trainer, Author

Life Coach and Columnist to Kuier magazine

Empathy & Relationship Expert on RSG

info@andeline.co.za

The Wellness & Networking Event For Women 2012 - images and feedback

My annual Wellness & Networking Event For Women was hosted on Tuesday, 16 October 2012, at the beautiful Alice Art in Ruimsig.

Thank you to everyone who contributed to the success of the event.  These include all my fabulous guests, my husband who was the MC / programme director, all those who sponsored prizes and the sponsor: Old Mutual.

I have received wonderful feedback, including that I should consider making the Wellness & Networking Event a monthly event and that it should be a full-day conference.

This tells me that there is no doubt about the value of the event and that it is in line with what I initially intended.  

See the link at the end for images by a journalist from Get It magazine.  The event is also featured in the November issue of the magazine.  be sure to get your copy.

Thank you once again.  We'll go bigger and do better next time.

Feedback: "Dear Andeline,  WOW! What an amazing event! Well done!  My apologies for leaving early but I’m sure it continued to be great!  May you always be blessed every step of the way!  Many blessings and love."

-Chris Stormer-Fryer- 

Chris is a recognised authority on reflexology and natural healing worldwide.

Andeline and Faieza Sanders, the winner of the mid-week break.  Faieza is from Blackapples and she specialises in creating photo books.  She also sponsored a few prizes.

Feedback: - "Well organised and I liked the venue and the speakers.  Well done!!!"

Andeline and Mr. Stander from Old Mutual.  His talk on financial well-being provided food for thought.

Feedback: "I learnt a lot.  Enjoyed it.  Have lots to think about."

-H. Totos-

Delegates talking while enjoying the delicious treats on the menu.

Feedback: "Thank you for the wonderful line-up of speakers.  The food was awesome."

Feedback: "A very informative seminar.  Thank you for organising it for us.  We really enjoyed it.  Good luck for the future."

Last-minute networking before going home.

Feedback: "Wonderful feel-good session.  It reminded us how passionate, yet fragile life is and how we walk with blinkers on.  Do take care and walk this journey."
-Shariefa from Nexus travel-

Colleen, Andeline and Dudu.  They are both from Absa Bank.

Feedback: "Hi Andeline.  It was a privilege representing Absa yesterday and I thank you for the opportunity.  Thank you for the fabulous event, I really enjoyed networking with all the Ladies and I enjoyed all the presentations as well! I realised that we really do need a Networking Forum where we get together on a monthly basis, this will assist in empowering women and increase business. Once again thanks so much!" - Colleen van Rensburg-

Educational Psychologist: Dr. Lanette Hattingh, Andeline and Izelle Venter.  Dr. Hattingh generously donated a few copies of her book towards our lucky draw.

Delegates interacting

Feedback: "Andeline, thank you for the wonderful learning experience.  It was inspiring and motivational."

Feedback: Great!  I enjoyed it very much!  Loved it!

Dr. Pieter Smal From The Developmental Institute for the deaf and Blind in Rustenburg.  Andeline, hubby and Christiaan Smal.

Feedback: "Fantastic and well-organised event.  Really motivational and inspirational speakers, covering different aspects.  Well done and thank you so much for having me as a guest."
-Heidi Hannig, from Bag Secure-

Our speakers with their gifts, sponsored by Absa Bank.

From left to right: Mali Ramara, Nobuhle Ncube, Andeline, Annelie Potgieter, Annelise Bunce, Dr. Pieter Smal, Christiaan Smal is at the back.  Dr. Tshepiso Matenjie had to leave early.

Delegates queueing to have their blood pressure taken.

A little more networking before going home.

Annelie Potgieter, Nobuhle Ncube, Andeline Williams-Pretorius

Feedback: "Fantastic event!  Sharing, caring and learning.  Absolutely wonderful.  

 Thank you the opportunity to present to your delegates. I hope you had as much fun as most of us did.  Keep well and hope we meet soon to discuss more women’s workshops."

-Nobuhle Nchube, from EQ Legal-

The table setting.

My MC / hubby and I

Feedback: "Well-organised event.  I will recommend it to all my friends.  Well done."

Andeline and Dr. Tshepiso Matenjie, Resident Psychologist on 3Talk with Noeleen

Andeline, Petra Burger & colleague.  They are from the National Council for People with Physical Disabilities in South Africa.

Andeline and Emilie Olifant

Andeline in the middle, with from left: Faieza Sanders, winner of the mid-week break, Nicole Crawford, Mercy Klassen, Mpho, her friend and Mariana van Rheede van Oudtshoorn at the end.  Mariana is from Exempt BEE.

Andeline and Mariana, from Exempt BEE

Get It Magazine was there.  See this link for images by Get It Magazine journalist.  The event is also featured in the November 2012 issue of the magazine.  Get your copy.

http://joburgwest.getitonline.co.za/gallery

Contact them (ask for Distribution) to find out where you can get your free copy of the magazine.  Tel: 011 955 1130.

If you have any enquiries about the event, my training programmes or speech topics and how I can contribute to your event or corporate function, contact me: Andeline Williams-Pretorius.

Email: info@andeline.co.za
Mobile: 072 856 0218

Confirmation, received and accepted with grace

An Author / Speaker was born.

I received the most wonderful telephone call on Thursday; an invitation to a book launch.  To hear that you have been an inspiration to someone and that they have accomplished their dream because of what you, because of how you inspired them, is huge.

That call and the launch that I attended yesterday was confirmation that I am doing exactly what I am supposed to do.  I receive and accept that confirmation with grace, but I know that it doesn't even belong to me, but to my Creator and to Cornelius Smal himself for making the decision to turn his dream into reality.

His proud parents: Mrs. Smal and Dr. Pieter Smal, together with his two brothers, make for a fantastic support system.  

Andeline & author, Cornelius Smal.

The cover image of the book.  

The title: "Sparky se Kringe in die Knysna", deur Cornelius Smal.

A number of years ago, while exploring the Knysna woods, Cornelius got separated from the group. With bruises, cuts, a dislocated shoulder and severely dehydrated, he wondered whether he'll get out of there alive. His experience gave birth to a wonderful book, in which he also gives tips on survival.  A great read that I'll recommend to anyone, including the youth.

 An Author / Speaker was born.

In this image, from left to right: 

Arod from Jacaranda 94.2, the author - Cornelius Smal, Desire Gardiner - "7de Laan, Binnelanders and Roepman" and myself: Andeline Williams-Pretorius.

Cornelius, the Author, doing the autograph-thing.

Words of encouragement to Cornelius about three years ago, have subsequently given birth to my programme, titled: Grow Your Personal Brand Or Business By Getting Great Publicity.


Click this link to see what I focus on in my programme:
http://ezinearticles.com/?Nine-Options-To-Grow-Your-Personal-Brand-or-Business-By-Getting-Great-Publicity&id=7203618

You too can publish your book, position yourself as an expert and stand out.



Need PR Services?

See this link for my blog post about this service.
http://www.andelinewilliamspretorius.blogspot.com/2012/09/andeline-williams-pretorius-pr.html


Best wishes on your journey.

From me: Andeline.  
Andeline is an Inspirational Speaker & Trainer and available to speak at your next event.  

Contact me with your enquiries - info@andeline.co.za
Mobile: 072 856 0218.

Andeline's Motivational Training was recently nominated for the prestigious ROCCI - Business Of The Year Awards, 2012.


Andeline was recognised by African Innovations as one of South Africa's Most Inspirational Women, together with twenty-nine others.  Their glossy-page coffee table book, coming soon.

Youngsters making it happen for themselves

Being one of the speakers at the Queens of Media Event, hosted by- and for students at Damelin, was indeed a proud moment for me.  A wonderful event, organised by Jarvas Mahlangu and his team.

If all the youth, could be as pro-active as these youngsters, whom I was privileged to meet, then there is hope to build a wonderful country.

The Speakers at the event

From left to right:

Tumelo Mothotoane, Neo Ntsoma, Andeline Williams-Pretorius and Ntombikayise Phiri.

It was wonderful to be one of the speakers, together with radio presenters and photo journalist.  This is all because of my programme: Grow Your Personal Brand or Business By Getting Great Publicity.  What a winner, this programme of mine?  

Click this link to read my article with the same title for what I focus on when presenting this fantastic programme:

http://ezinearticles.com/?Nine-Options-To-Grow-Your-Personal-Brand-or-Business-By-Getting-Great-Publicity&id=7203618

Andeline on stage presenting her talk.

I was deeply touched when I became aware of the objective of the event.  Students realising that they have to see what they could do for themselves to make sure that they are better equipped for the job-market.  To learn skills to ensure that they are able to do something else, while waiting to get the job that they studied for.

Some of the students, listening to my talk.

These students are speaking my language.  I am very excited about our youth and about these students and all others taking such initiative, because when I was their age, I was still struggling with a crippling lack of self-esteem and lack of assertiveness.  And here they are...doing such fantastic work.  How fabulous is that.  I wish them the best, because they deserve it.


Earlier this year, after graduating myself, I wrote a blog post about the new graduate, about how, when they struggle to find employment, how they are unable to re-invent themselves.  You can see this blog post further down, titled: 
"You are a new graduate; now what?"

Click this link to read blog post.
http://www.andelinewilliamspretorius.blogspot.com/2012/04/you-are-new-graduate-now-what.html


Yes, I am available to speak at your event.

For enquiries, send and email to: info@andeline.co.za

Andeline Williams-Pretorius
Inspirational Speaker, Trainer, Author, Wife, Mother.

Andeline's Motivational Training was recently nominated in the prestigious ROCCI - Business of The Year Awards


After a journey of more than ten years of hard work, sacrifices, commitment, getting it wrong and then getting it right, it is finally happening for me.  And I am grateful.

The Wellness & Networking Event For Women

Come and celebrate Spring at The Wellness & Networking Event For Women.  

As I am preparing to get everything ready for this year's event, I realise that this event is about giving back - giving back to those who support me, those who are always ready with a kind and caring word.  

Thank you.  

It is because of you that I can host this event for every woman who can benefit from it, women working in the corporate market or those with their own business.

With this event, I focus on all aspects of women's well-being.  Delegates are treated to informative and inspirational talks by experts in their respective fields.

I am meeting with the Legal Expert who'll be speaking at the event, this morning.  I've learnt so much from her, and am excited about what she'll be sharing with delegates on the day of the event.  What I can say about her speciality at this moment, is that she specialises in Civil matters.

Think about those important things that most women tend to neglect when it comes to business or personal relationships, the contracts, the terms & conditions, and a whole lot more of the important legal stuff.  

Our legal expert will answer all your questions after her talk.  I will share more about her and her company soon.

Our Psychological expert to speak at this years event, is a regular Psychologist on 3 Talk.

As a future Psychologist, I have the utmost respect for her and have admired her for a long time.  Then I got the opportunity to meet her.  We spoke, I asked her and she said yes.

It is important for me to take the time to select speakers I know would add value to the lives, relationships and careers of my delegates.  This is just one of the ways, I wish to thank you for all your support, because your support has hugely contributed to my journey and where I am today.

I am excited about our Expert who will share her inspirational journey of surviving cancer.  I met this woman and had that instant liking in her.  She was so positive and inspirational.  I got to know her and it was only much later that I realised that she was a cancer survivor.  Well, you'll be inspired.

At this year's event, I will focus on: Wolf At The Back Door Syndrome and how to manage and successfully survive this phenomenon.

How fabulous is our friend: GOOGLE?  When you google this phrase, my article comes up.  Thank you, Google.

At every event, we also have a medical expert, who does voluntary blood pressure checks.  As women, we are very busy and often taking care of everybody else, before putting ourselves on our to-do list.

This sadly also applies, when it comes to important medical check-ups. If you want the expert to test your blood-pressure, she'll be happy to do it and advise you accordingly.

I am proud to say that at previous events we have "saved" a few lives.  Many who had high blood pressure, had no idea about it.  

I care about my delegates very much and want you to be the best that you can be.

I will share more information about all the experts next time.

Our good bag products are also coming in.  That is fantastic.

Everybody loves a "goodie" bag and to stand to win a prize

You are welcome to bring your pamphlets and business cards, to be added to the "goodie" bags.

We have prizes up for grabs and we have delicious treats on the menu.

You can exhibit your product

If you would like to exhibit your product for all to see at the event, contact me to book your space.  Space limited.  T's & C's apply.

Introduce yourself and your business - 30 seconds.

Say who you are and what you do - every delegate gets to do this.

More details about the event, our speakers and their companies to follow soon.

Your enquiries are welcome.

Book your seat now to make use of the early bird special!!!

Date:   Tuesday, 16 October 2012.

Venue: Alice Art, No. 217 Dryf Street, Ruimsig, Roodepoort.

Time:   10h00 - 14h00.

Cost:   A real treat at R250, 00 per delegate (early bird special).

Banking details: 

Andeline's Motivational Training, ABSA Bank, Menlyn, Cheque account, Account Number: 4061007354, Branch Code: 632005. 

Email or fax your proof of payment: 

Email address: info@andeline.co.za

Fax number: 086 546 9069

Some of the feedback received after my previous Wellness & Networking events:

"Thank you for a wonderful event and for the honour of making me part of it."

-C. Noble. Our legal expert at the Jhb. event."

"Andeline, this was awesome in a world so full of hurt and stumbling blocks. God blesses people

like you to take us forward and teach us to enjoy the gift of life."

-I. Kearns-

"Andeline, thanks so much for this – it was a pleasure to work with you and to be part of your special day."

Kind regards

Edith Venter

"Dear Andeline,

Thank you for putting together such a well organised workshop. You had a good range of speakers which touched everyone as it so related to the many areas of our lives.

It was inspiring, informative and loads fun and you made all Women feel extra special. My team and I really enjoyed ourselves.  Keep up the excellent work.

Kind regards

Leona Toussaint

Director, www.EnjoytheJourney.co.za

"I like your guts of going out there, doing your thing and following your passion."

-W. Khoza- Absa Bank

"Andeline, I am honoured to finally meet you. One of my colleagues called me from the event in

Johannesburg yesterday, saying: "You are missing out on a truly fantastic event." Monica - Absa Bank.

"Thank you for organising such a great event. It was very uplifting."

-M. Ramara-

"Andeline, it is indeed an honour to be a part of this event. You are adding value to our society with your wonderful concept."

-Prof. Herholdt. Our Psyclogical / Medical expert at the Hartebeespoort event.

"Andeline, you have created a great concept. All the speakers have contributed something of

value. Thank you for reminding me of what is truly important in life."

-Mrs. Naidoo. , Absa Bank-

"Dear Andeline, this serves as to thank you for organising such a wonderful wellness event.  It was really worth our time , I think it opened our eyes as we hardly do health check-ups.  All the speakers were relevant to the theme. At most events they always talk about

women empowerment and business issues , They really don’t talk about health issues that affect us women today ."

-Felicia Buthelezi-

"Hi Andeline

It was a great day. Thanks so much for organising it and treating us ladies to such a special event. I look forward to the next one."

-Elmarie Louw-

"Hi Andeline,

Thank you so much for the beautiful show. It exceeded my expectations. Congratulations, you're definitely going places. Please keep me posted about your future shows. P.S You 're blessed to have such a supportive husband.

Kind Regards and be blessed."

Keboetsoe

"Hi Andeline,

My mother and I attended the event in Little Falls, as well as the event in Hartbeespoort. We found the events to be well organised, and great fun. We enjoyed it very much. Thank you."

Marina Heck

Thank you for stopping by.  Have a beautiful day.